Editor:
Deb Berg
Deb Berg, owner of Nightingale
Enterprises & Associates has been in the “business world” since 1974.
Providing office management and administrative support to other businesses,
I have learned from the bottom up! My first “business office” job was Membership
Director & Office Manager for the Chula Vista Visitors & Convention
Bureau in Chula Vista, CA. My position required soliciting local
businesses to support/join the Visitor’s bureau in promoting southern San
Diego County to the tourism trade. Other employment positions included
bookkeeping & office support for an auto dealership, Human Resources
Support (Quality Improvement) for Boeing Commercial Aircraft Company, and
20 years of my own business administrative support for small business owners.
I have spent the past two and a half years researching, collecting, and
purchasing resource articles, manuals, and how-to
General business tips will
provide a variety of articles, how-to, and checklists to help make your
business more successful and run more efficiently. If there is a particular
topic of interest please feel free to email me with your requests.
I will make every attempt to accommodate it! DebB@nytngale.org
with D-W tips in the subject line. |
HOW TO DEVELOP A WINNING ATTITUDE
What does it take in our everyday lives
to be successful? In order to evaluate this question it is first necessary
to understand what "success" is and what all successful people have in
common. It is probably safe to assume that anyone reading this article
wants to be successful. However, only 5% of the population will ever reach
their potential for all activities, 95% of the people will never truly
be successful. By definition, success is the realization of a worthy deal.
Success is different for every individual. For some people, an annual income
of $25,000 would be a success, for another it may be $125,000.
Whatever it may be for you, there are 5
characteristics that you must have in common with other successful people
in order to achieve true success.
1. Goals
Goals are the single most important factor
in achieving success. Without a realistic goal, how will you ever know
when you have reached your success level? All successful people set goals.
All goals must be realistic, short term, measurable and obtainable within
the bounds of your own perception. As time passes, your goals can always
be adjusted upward to reach your ultimate goal of success. However, if
your initial goal is to be worth $1,000,000 by the year end and you are
currently only worth $100,000 with an annual income of $50,000 a year and
this is November, you most likely will never be able to reach it and therefore,
it is unrealistic. Biting off a job in small portions makes the eventual
achievement of the total task seem easier and manageable. All successful
people constantly set goals, re-evaluate their goals and scale them upward
toward even greater accomplishments.
2. A Positive Attitude
A positive attitude is the second factor
that successful people have in common. I have never met a truly successful
person who I would consider a "self made" success that did not have a positive
attitude. These people relate to the world on a positive basis. They always
look for the "can do" not the "can not do" side of every situation. "If
you think you can or if you think you can't, you're right." All successful
people truly believe not only in themselves, but also in the reality of
their goals. A positive attitude is contagious and when it is sincere,
the people with whom you come in contact will relate to you and your activities
with a vitality and positive attitude that causes a winning, successful
environment.
3. The Truth
The truth is always best to deal with
for several reasons, not the least important of which is that it is always
the easiest to remember. If you are going to be successful, you will not
have time, energy and ability to remember untruths, or lies that you have
told people. This consumes valuable energy and detracts from the power
needed to run a successful life. The truth is easy to remember and generally,
in the long term, easier to deal with. True winners are always ready to
face the truth in situations and handle things as they deal with them on
a timely basis and then proceed to get on with the business of running
a successful, prosperous life. Never having to back track to cover up problem
areas.
4. Research and Development
Research and Development in today's society
have become extremely important to all major corporations. This is where
all new products and ideas evolve. Successful individuals have always understood
this principal on a personal level and they constantly strive to improve
their own abilities through such methods as formal educational systems,
seminars, reading books, listening to ideas the thoughts of others, and
in any manner that presents itself to them. Successful people truly believe
they can improve themselves and constantly strive to seek methods and means
that will help them accomplish this task. They also know that there is
a price to pay for this success and the return on investment is sometimes
great and sometimes small, but that the return without the investment is
always the same "0".
"Thinking
is the hardest work there is, which is the probable reason why so few engage
in it."
Henry Ford
5. The Ability to Think
Mankind's ability over all other creatures
on this Earth is the ability to think. All successful people use this talent
to improve their lives and control their own destiny. Only you can take
the initial step toward the unleashing of the power within your own mind.
The power is awesome and at times can be frightening. However, wo/man has
abilities of the mind that many people cannot or would not believe. Anthony
Robbins has recently written a book entitled "Unlimited Power" which explains
in simple terms the theories of Neuro Linguistic Programming, the power
of the mind and how to gain control and use it. NLP was originally developed
by John Grinder and Richard Bandler as a communication system using the
central nervous system. Through this system Mr. Robbins has put forth a
complete outline on how to unleash your "performance power" and achieve
goals that before you probably felt were impossible.
The first step in using your true mental
abilities is understanding what Mr. Robbins refers to as the seven triggering
mechanisms that is sure success.
1. Passion - All truly
successful people such as Lee Iacocca have a driving force within them
that sets them apart from others. "A desire, an energy that gives them
the fuel to reach their true potential.” This force is a part of them 24
hours a day, seven days a week. It never subsides. Their total existence
is sustained for the fulfillment of their goals. The passion within this
individual to achieve has been so deeply implanted, that their mental power
is driven by this force and will not let them do anything other than achieve.
2. Belief - "They can
because they think they can"-Virgil. You will only make $100,000 this year
if you first believe you can. If you do not believe you can you are telling
yourself you want it, but it is truly not obtainable. The truth of life
is that man's limits are self-imposed by what the mind is given to believe.
If you expand your belief of your own abilities, you will also expand
your true realm of accomplishment. A man of whom all are aware, lived his
life with adversity, but he constantly believed he could achieve.
Failed in business at age 31
Was defeated in a legislative race at
age 32
Failed again in business at age 34
Overcome death of sweetheart at age 35
Had a nervous breakdown at age 36
Lost an election at age 38
Lost a congressional race at age 43
Lost a congressional race at age 46
Lost a congressional race at age 48
Lost a Senatorial race at age 55
Failed to become Vice President at age
56
Lost a Senatorial race at age 58
Was elected President of the United States
at age 60
With all the adversity that faced him,
President Abraham Lincoln had no reason to continually try other than the
fact that he believed it was his destiny and measure of success to accomplish
this task.
"Man is what he believes" -Anton Checkhov
3. Strategy - A strategy is your
game plan of life. The road map you will use to accomplish your goals,
ambitions and desires. Just to believe you can earn $100,000 a year is
not enough, you must design a strategy that gives your life direction and
navigates you toward success. The key to strategy is to design a proper
strategy to achieve your success without the detours of life, to find the
shortest distance between two points.
4. Clarity of Values - Man must
first determine which things in life are most valuable to him. S/He must
determine her/his feeling about such things as family, patriotism, pride,
love, freedom, excellence, ownership and tolerance. These are values in
society, the moral, ethical and fundamental judgments that we, as individuals,
deem important. Without a clear system of values for ourselves, it is impossible
to believe in something with a passion that has no value to us. Once we
have established our individual value system we are then able to determine
how we can achieve success based on our priority of values. What must we
five up in one hand to accomplish what we desire on the other. Without
a value system we can never move forward for we may be trading without
increasing our potential for success.
5. Energy - Without the physical
vitality to take action, nothing would ever come of our system to this
point. The passion could build, our belief of accomplishment could be overwhelming,
we could have the best strategy or map to achieve the ultimate value for
our own life, but if not for taking the first step, nothing could ever
be accomplished. Great success cannot be separated from physical, spiritual
and mental energy that allows us, compels us, to accomplish the most with
what we have to work with. Physical energy comes from the strength of the
body itself fueled by our intake of nourishment. It is therefore important
that we fuel our engine with premium fuel (good eating habits), not low
grade regular (junk food). Our spiritual and intellectual energy evolves
from our environment and it is therefore important that we assess our own
personal environment to maximize the energy that we can obtain.
6. Bonding Power - We have all known
people that have exhibited the ability to get along with anyone and everyone.
The ability to be a chameleon is truly the ability to connect with and
bond with others. "The ability to build rapport." Being able to deal
with others as Mr. Robbins says "To effectively communicate, we must realize
that we are all different in the way we perceive the world and use this
understanding as a guide to our communication with others." "To be able
to understand."
7. Mastery of Communication - To
take charge and run your own mind. To learn the techniques of NLP and no
longer allow our mind to run our lives, but rather take charge of our own
mental abilities and cause them to work for our own accomplishment of success.
"There is only one Success - to be able
to spend your life in your own way."
- Christopher Morley
| From Deb Berg...
Additionally I provide resume’
services, database setup/maintenance and bulk mailing ads, Design &
host websites, as well as the Executive Administrator for a 50 team Youth-baseball
league. I am a QuickBooks Professional Advisor. My Education includes two
certificate courses in Business Administrative support and two and a half
years of Business College. I am a year away from my Bachelor’s degree.
My most recent pursuit to obtain my degree by age 50 was interrupted by
my husband’s illness & subsequent death from cancer. My plans
have only been “postponed” and I hope to start my degree program again
in the new millenium. I currently have five active websites with three
more in the make! My other full time “job” is “professional Mom”, I provide
licensed, in-home, child day care services.
Resources:
The Bee Hive @ www.tech4women.org
specializes in providing business, personal and consumer tips for Women
only! This new site offers a paid membership-based “private site”
where you can download any/all the reports, manuals, and consumer tips
I have collected for the past two years (Free with membership-worth 10
times the cost of membership!). |
OTHER BUSINESS TIPS
FOR YOU!
Online
Business Start Up Tips
Editor: Jane McClain
Unique
Promotional Ideas and Tips
Editor: Ellen Cagnassola
Marketing
Tips
Editor: Nicole Lascelle-Hornig
Online
Promotion Tips
Editor: Tara Lang
Online
Tips for "newbies" to the Internet
Editor: Kristie |
Business
Loans for Women
|