"Networking
is a LEARNED Skill"
by Nancy Roebke
Ok,
really. How tough can networking be? It involves TALKING to
people
and I talk to people every single day. Why do I
constantly
need to learn how to network? Why do I need to
constantly
develop networking skills? Why is it recommended that
I
participate in GROUPS that only have a focus on networking? It
just
can't be that tough.
.
Networking
is a LEARNED skill. It involves developing strong
relationship-building
techniques. These are taught. Just like
mathematical
skills and verbal skills. It is a common
misconception
that you should "know" how to network. After all,
it's
believed, networking is not brain surgery or rocket
science.
But
that IS a misconception. Without constant exposure to new
relationship-building
ideas, without exposure to different
people,
and different communication styles, without training in
the
field of networking, a business professional would suffer
from
some serious business development challenges. These
challenges
included but are not limited to:
1.
A lack of ability to get past "gate keepers". A very common
way
to get past gate-keepers is through a referral from someone
the
gate keeper knows and respects. Without strong networking
skills,
a business professional will be unable to generate such
referrals.
2.
Once past them, a challenge with getting an appointment with
a
decision-maker. Here, without strong listening skills and
precise
presentation techniques, the busy decision-maker finds
it
easy to end a conversation before it's started.
3.
Once an appointment is made, difficulty communicating
features
and benefits to your prospect. People relate to
different
styles of communication in different ways. Usually,
someone
likes to be related to in the same manner that they
relate
to others. To use a different style can not only cause a
delay
in the presentation process, but can actually lead to the
termination
of an otherwise mutually-beneficial business
relationship
just because the STYLE was offensive to the
recipient.
4.
Even if all the above can be handled successfully, a
difficulty
in closing the sale. In an ideal networking
relationship,
both parties are concerned with learning about
each
other so they can best help each other. This skill makes
closing
a sale easier, since you have learned how to best help
your
prospect and your prospect has learned how you can best
help
them. The close is much easier then.
There
appears to be no formal courses someone can take on
Networking.
(Although I personally would LOVE to change
THAT!)The
closest thing to a networking course is participation
in
networking groups. Here, a group of like-minded individuals
meet
with common goals in mind-the over-all goal being increased
business
revenue for all participants.
Any
readers interested in furthering THEIR Networking education
may
want to read a series of articles on the topic (including
articles
on Networking groups)that I have available by
autoresponder.
For a list of the titles of these articles, send
a
blank e-mail to:
mail
to: files@profnet.org
An
autoresponder will return a list of the available files WITH
descriptions
so you can continue YOUR networking education by
choosing
the articles that are of interest to you.
Copyright
c 1998 Nancy Roebke
Nancy
Roebke
Execdirector@Profnet.Org
http://www.profnet.org
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